My Turf

"Is our population getting to be predominantly pansy? Must we allow homosexuality to march unobstructed until we are converted into a nation of sexless persons without the virility of males and the grace of females but only an insipid mix of these diluted virtues? Let us be warned against the gay population, which is per se a compromise between the strong and the weak and therefore only somewhat and not the absolute of either of the two qualities. Be alert lest the Philippine flag be made of delicate lace and adorned with embroidered frills."

- Isagani Cruz, PDI Columnist

I felt really offended after reading Isagani Cruz’s article which came out in PDI’s August 12 issue (view the full text here). I am not part of the gay community, but many of my dearest friends are homosexuals/ bisexuals. I witnessed how plenty of them struggled with identity crises, self-acceptance issues, parents (especially fathers!) who just couldn’t understand them, unfair judgment, jeers, snide comments, sexual harrassment…

A lot of them, however, are naturally gifted with so many talents and inherent drive to succeed. Such rude treatment never really got in the way of their dreams. Most of my gay friends are now enjoying different levels of success in their chosen endeavors. And I am mighty proud for every one of them. Mr. Cruz’s description of the gay community as "sexless persons…an insipid mix of diluted virtues" is way off and uncalled for. It is utterly disrespectful. How can he comment so harshly on something he does not, and can never, completely understand?

Freedom of Expression is a right that have been fought for by countless people in different parts of the world. I admit I am no fan of cross-dressers or screaming fags, but then again, I tell myself, "To each his/her own." Whatever kick they get out of dressing, acting or speaking the way they do is something I will never completely be in on because I am not them. In the same way I do not want to be judged as crass or unladylike simply because my voice is deep and I prefer going to work in frayed jeans and rubbershoes.

"And, of course, there are lady-like directors who are probably the reason why every movie and TV drama must have the off-color “bading” [gay] or two to cheapen the proceedings."

Tsk, tsk, tsk… yari ka talaga sa mga pinagsasabi mo.

I wonder if Mr. Cruz’s inbox has enough space for the flurry of emails that he will most likely be receiving in the coming days. 

Bigotry is alive and kicking, folks.